Friday, 30 August 2013

It’s my story, and I’m sticking to it

My on-line persona has no fear of offending others, liberating me to give an honest opinion that I might hesitate to do in company. I sometimes feel less real offline, when disengaging is going to mean giving an explanation, than when I can simply log out or go to another thread. My created self has been an inspiration for personal growth.
Tuan (1991, p686) says hunter-gatherer societies live in a human environment "because they have named it". The present citizens of the first world live in a largely posthumanist environment where complex systems have been enshrined for generations before we were born. It’s the same in our virtual networks; others have conceived and built the site, and we play by the rules or we fail. Our power lies in choosing a site whose rules are a good fit with our values.
Van Luyn (2013) said the widespread belief that society is developing and that technology is progress is a myth; we know the future will be different but it won’t necessarily be better. The Uncommon Forum, ironically, shows how isolating online networks can be. Dozens of younger members say they don’t know how to make real-world friends, which makes online 'unfriending' and break-ups painfully significant.

There’s no need to run away. You’re really not such a 
rat, you know. It’s all very understandable, in your 
circumstances…
Site naming determines who will gather. While Facebook is for those wanting connection and Twitter encourages fly-in fly-out brevity, Uncommon Forum is populated by misfits, outcasts and other lost souls. The narratives offered under pseudonyms benefit all members. Writing out a dark secret diminishes its power, there is kinship in adversity, there’s always someone worse off and no one is shocked. Much as the Water Rat gave Mole a new vision of his own home (Grahame, cited by Tuan, 1991), the bulk of Uncommon Forum communication gives troubled members a kinder, more empowering perception of themselves and their lives.


REFERENCES

Tuan, Y. (1991) Language and the Making of Place: A Narrative-Descriptive Approach. Annals of the Association of American Geographers, Vol. 81, No. 4, pp. 684-696. Retrieved from http://www.jstor.org/stable/2563430

Van Luyn, A. (2013) BA1002: Our Space: Networks, Narratives and the Making of Place, Lecture 5: Stories and Places. [PowerPoint slides]. Retrieved from http://learnjcu.edu.au

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